Fantasy Transforms Everyday Encounters
If my partner and I are spending a day running errands and hanging out, then the mood often strikes while we are out and about and we will have a midday tryst. One of my favorite ways to get us both in the mood is to talk about how hot it would be to have sex is the stacks of the bookstore or on that couch in the antique store or how that chocolate sauce in the grocery store would taste better on a body than ice cream. Just making small easy comments into each others ears and letting hands linger on bodies in otherwise innocent/sexless spaces can be a huge turn on. (Heck…my motor is running just writing this.)
My other sure fire way to get in the mood is to spend some time just existing. If the kid is in bed and I get a little time to relax with a glass of wine and a book…15 minutes later I am grabbing the Hitachi and ready to go. I find that the everyday stresses are enough to tip the scales and when I remove the stresses (even for a short period) I will see a spike in my libido.
What do you do to keep the sparks flying?
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