Written by Mary on 9.19.2011 | 1 Comment
I’ve been somewhat overwhelmed by the number of articles that I have found online about pregnancy and body image. I find myself turned off to these articles when I see them because most of them have messaging like, “don’t worry your body will return to normal” or “it’s okay to eat more now that you are pregnant”. I get it, there is a lot of pressure out there for women to stay skinny and the pregnant body is far from that. But this kind of messaging creates the image that a pregnant body is not a sexy body. I must beg to differ.
I have never felt sexier than I do not that I’m pregnant. From watching my belly grow bigger and bigger to the cleavage that I never thought possible. Here is my list of the top 10 ways that I’ve enjoyed my sexy body during pregnancy:
1. Maximize the cleavage. I’ve never had huge boobs and now that I have them I totally want to flaunt them. It’s probably because they are only temporary so I feel the need to enjoy them while they last. But whatever the reason, it certainly makes me feel sexy to push up the boobage a little bit to get the most out of what I’ve got. Read the full post »
Written by Mary on 5.11.2010 | 2 Comments

I recently met up with some friends who are trying to get pregnant. They have been trying for a while and seem to be getting a little frustrated with the whole process. They told me about how exhausting sex has become. I could totally relate. Once sex became about getting pregnant it changed the meaning of sex and the nature of the way that my husband and I started talking about and enjoying sex. We found ourselves taking the pleasure out of sex and making it much more objective driven. Read the full post »
Written by Mary on 4.22.2010 | 2 Comments

I started packing a couple of weeks ago for our move to a bigger apartment–more room for two of us, our dog, and a new baby due in a few months. When I pulled open the closet in the bedroom I found the bottom shelf packed with vibrators.
Working at Babeland for 6 ½ years has provided me with a collection of vibrators that some women would die for. Instead, I have taken advantage of this job perk, shoving them in my closet, some still unopened and never used. I began transferring them to a box only to find that I would have to thin out my collection or get a bigger box. And let’s face it, no one wants a massive box labeled “sex toys” to spark the mover’s imagination. Read the full post »